The sun is pushing in, through the clouds, past the rain…

I’m back from the road – when was the last time I was here? Hmmm… it’s the first of February – just 52 eventful weeks ago I made my way to Hobbit House and retrieved the keys.

Wow. One year in our house, one year in our home. We painted a room. We’re gonna make this place rock.
“Can’t rain all the time” says Boo.

My mom made it through her latest surgical adventure quite remarkably – alert, happy, looking good, feeling better. Made Blood and I’s visit easier, but more challenging, if that makes any sense.
Us Wallace’s are trouble-fixers – let us make things better. Tough to do when you sail through a visit to the hospital as well as mom did. No complaints on that. We just needed a bigger puzzle to solve, that’s all.

Mom has cancer. Cancer of the bladder.
Here’s what the latest pathology report said: It was cancer with a superficial invasion of the bladder wall (NOT the muscle) — so he is talking to Dr. B(Utica) and wants to start the BCG infusion (once a week for 6 weeks) ASAP!!!

This is from October 31’st of last year: The CT scan of the abdomen and pelvis was clean!! Saw the bone scan report last eve — it is clean!!
She started this path last fall; October was a couple of uncomfortable procedures, along with a surgery which got all the kids in town.

From a Dec med update from ma: Saw Dr. B (urologist) – the gist of my situation is as follows: the instillation treatment initially mentioned will probably not be a viable option (not that effective); the last biopsy he took was the same type of cancer as the original tumor – not too fast growing but probably best treated by chemo &/or radiation. I will be having a consult with a Dr. P in Albany (urological oncologist) under whom Dr. B studied. This will probably be set up in January. If I choose chemo/radiation it would be done here at Fax. after the consult with Dr. Pi. The other (I think kind of extreme option) would be to remove the bladder and have a pouch – don’t think I want that!

So, over the last 4 months it’s been a bit crazy. Glad ma’s doing well. Really glad it’s what it is, and not what it could have been. We’ll all sleep better I’m sure.

Getting organized for a hell of a February, and though I have to get to the writing thing a lot more than I have been, I’ll share with you what my dear sister Blood has put together, cause she’s attuned to cool things. And she shares!

From Blood’s recent note:

While in upstate last week, Blood shared with me this:

ok – maybe a ‘woops’ isn’t the worst thing…

take care of yourselves out there…

:+s+:

“Keep Calm and Carry On”